Relationships: still Single? In these 5 errors it could be
You’re single and although you don’t want it to be, actually? All are, in your opinion, probably but yourself to blame.
You should check whether any of the following apply to you, because then it is guaranteed nothing with a solid partnership.
1. You have too many One-Night Stands
Against spontaneous sexual adventure is nothing at all wrong with that, but that a relationship is more than unrealistic. After all, it came only to your little interlude, because both parties wanted to weigh in safety, that after the hot night no further obligations threaten.
Regardless, you shouldn’t have your sexual activism something back screws, if you’re in search of a serious relationship, because it is particularly trusted for “outsiders” waking, if you Wake up every weekend in the other sheets.
2. You’re in a “friendship Plus”
Even if it is not necessarily the type for a One-Night, has. any long-time single eventually, the need for physical proximity It can arise time something like a friendship with a certain “advantages”.
This type of “acquaintance”, however, has two crucial disadvantages: firstly, one of the two parties hoped for, usually something more than just “friendship” and on the other, the chances are from this constellation, a right Partner is equal to Zero.
3. You’re living in the past
You’re still grieving your Ex still did not overcome the separation, or to revel at every opportunity in the memories of the past? Then you can bend the topic “new love” first.
As long as you live in the past, you’re not at all open for something New or ready to make a new people so get to know how he really is, without comparing him with your Ex.
Just take your time, and distract yourself with other projects – a relationship at this stage is not a part of your present, but still distant future.
4. You don’t want to set
Yes, no, maybe? This may have worked in the elementary school. For a adult relationship, these “look we n times, then see we are already”setting, however, is not a good basis.
You have to assume that your potential Partner also has some relationships behind and it is not sexual experience is lacking. Why should he be so interested in a constellation, which is open in all directions?
The Same should apply to you. If your Date gives you the feeling that “everything can, nothing must”, without the feelings of compacting in a single direction, you can be sure that this “relationship” ripples already listless in front of him.
This is really a bad start for a new “love”!
5. You have lost Faith in the luck
You’ve been cheated on, lied to, and have a painful separation after the other behind you? Of course, you’re asking the question now is, why is it exactly this time should be any different. This is nonsense!
Every man and especially every relationship is different. From the past failures you’ve learned a lot and something you will not destined to happen again.
Return your experience positive for you, you have to have a Partner to get to know that makes you really happy. Avoiding relationships, afraid to be hurt again, is the first step in the loneliness.
Don’t let your ex-partner will get so much Power over you and your happiness and go boldly and with confidence in the Good in the future. Then the Rest of the work promised by all alone–!
Mareike Kalbitz
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